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Therapy Tales: Exploring relational process in practice

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ISBN 9781915220783 – Publication date 21st May 2026
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Therapeutic practice is becoming more explicitly ‘relational’ with many therapists describing themselves as being relational. But what does it actually mean? Therapy Tales draws on 13 evocative and thought-provoking clinical stories, which bring to life the relational nature of psychotherapeutic process and practice. Through these tales, Linda Finlay explores the therapeutic process in depth.  She highlights how - behind apparently simple stories - therapy can be overwhelmingly intense, painful, puzzling, ambiguously inchoate, as well as nourishing. The synthesising discussions that follow each story are written specifically for therapists and trainees who are seeking to critically reflect on the experience of the therapeutic process, to build their evidence-based professional practice and to deepen their understanding of relational ethics. Throughout, the author foregrounds theoretical and practice debates around what effective relational therapy involves and how healing takes place.

The sheer fascination, depth, poignancy and power of what happens in the relational therapy space shines through each tale. The book emphasises how therapists work with complex human beings who have complex histories and that therapy processes are similarly layered. Demonstrating a wide range of approaches, readers will benefit from seeing how many concepts and practices are contested, and their applications depend on the therapist’s chosen approach/modality as well as the relational-social context. Organised in two sections, the seven therapy tales in Part I foreground work with individuals’ intrapsychic internal relational worlds involving embodied dialogical encounters. The six stories in Part II apply a more explicit socio-cultural lens showing how our social worlds mesh.

This book will be of interest to students, therapists and clients alike, and also for those simply curious to understand more about what happens behind psychotherapy’s closed doors

Part I Intrapsychic Relational Worlds and Embodied Dialogue

1 Cally: Performance anxiety fuelled by chronic shame

2 Richard: To live or die?

3 Claudia: Beneath the surface

4 Lisa: ‘Bodily doubt’

5 Darren: Taming the ‘brute’

6 Morgan: Finding emotional balance

7 Liam: Eros enters the therapy room

Part II Layered Meshing of Worlds: Applying a Socio-cultural Lens

8 Taigh: Murdered ‘parts of self’

9 Wei: Cultural legacy?

10 Khalid: Finding a ‘voice’ through decolonising therapy

11 Ivy (and Karen): Re-tuning relationships at home and school

12 Kaleisha: Raging at racism

13 Neela: Internalised oppressors?

Therapy Tales by Linda Finlay provides a thoughtful and engaging account of relational psychotherapy in practice. Drawing on a series of carefully constructed clinical narratives, Finlay illustrates how therapeutic work unfolds within the shared space between client and therapist. The book pays close attention to process, highlighting both the client’s experience and the therapist’s reflexive engagement, including the role of supervision.
What emerges is a grounded and moving appreciation of therapy as a collaborative and evolving encounter, rather than a set of techniques to be applied. The nuance and complexity of the relational process is beautifully crafted, supported by insight, awareness and meaning-making. Finlay, as always, writes with clarity and relational sensitivity, offering perspectives that will be of value to both experienced practitioners and those in training. This is a hugely valuable and perfectly pitched contribution to our understanding of relational practice.

Professor Andrew Reeves, Emeritus Professor in Counselling Professions and Mental Health, University of Chester

The 13 tales engagingly (and often movingly) recounted by Linda Finlay focus on what happens 'between' clients and therapists in their encounters. The 'relational space' that is created allows for mutual connection, disconnection and felt reverberation, which extends beyond the therapeutic relationship and onto all of the wider self, other and world relationships in both clients' and therapists' lives. Dr Finlay honestly and insightfully conveys the uncertain 'messiness' characteristic of relationally focused therapy. And, in doing so, she reveals its profound transformative impact upon all involved. Therapy Tales is a satisfyingly challenging book not least in its ability to remind its readers of the many complex and revealing existential possibilities that are awakened when we agree to engage in an honest and caring relationship.
Professor Ernesto Spinelli, author of Tales of Un-knowing: Therapeutic encounters from an existential perspective

Therapy Tales is an engaging book that is both accessible and thought provoking. Through 13 well-crafted stories, Dr Finlay brings the world of relational psychotherapy to life in a way that feels grounded and real. Each tale explores the connections between our past relationships and our present selves. These are not dry case studies but thoughtful, human stories of people working through their relational histories. This book makes a helpful distinction between therapy that simply involves relationships and therapy that is truly relational - where the dynamic between therapist and client becomes central to the psychotherapy process. This book is valuable reading for both trainee and experienced therapists alike, offering fresh perspectives on the relational dimensions of therapeutic practice.
Dr Peter Blundell, Senior Lecturer in Counselling and Psychotherapy Practice, Liverpool John Moores University

Linda Finlay

Linda Finlay, PhD, is a practising existential, relational-centred integrative psychotherapist and supervisor based in York (UK).  She is also an academic consultant and lecturer with the Open University, where she teaches and has written on various counselling and psychology courses. 

She is best known for her many publications on integrative psychotherapy, occupational therapy, and also qualitative, phenomenological research and reflexivity including Relational Integrative Psychotherapy (Wiley); The Therapeutic Use of Self in Counselling and Psychotherapy (Sage); Practical Ethics in Counselling and Psychotherapy (Sage); Phenomenology for Therapists (Wiley); and Relational Counselling and Psychotherapy (Sage).

Linda’s research interests include applying existential and hermeneutic phenomenological approaches to investigate the lived experience of disability and trauma. In straddling clinical and academic fields, she helps her research and writing be grounded in practice, while her practice remains informed by research.  She trusts the therapeutic process and how the therapeutic relationship might be harnessed for healing and self-discovery—the topic of all her writings. www.lindafinlay.co.uk

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